Being Content

Better is a dry morsel, and quietness therewith, than an house full of sacrifices with strife.–Proverbs 17:1

I do this all the time, looking at houses and thinking it would be nice to have a bigger house, a fancier house. Or thinking about how it would be nice to drive a Mercedes instead of my Ford. The issue is, that I’m not content like I should be.

Being content is hard for us, especially in the Americanized culture, where it’s taught to want more. There is nothing wrong with wanting better things than what you have for yourself or your family. It’s how we go about getting those things. What sacrifices are we willing to make in order to have more? Many people work 80 hour weeks so that they can pay for a fancier house or nicer car. They miss out on time with their family and loved ones, just to have some nicer things.

I see it a lot with people I know, not being content with what they have and always trying to make a dollar, so they can afford something that is beyond what they can really afford. These people get grouchy and easily irritable. Why? Because they never know for sure if they’re going to have money to pay for the nicer home, car, toys, whatever.

There is peace in being content with what you have. I know personally, when I’m content, I’m a much happier person. I probably a lot easier to live with. When I’m not content, I’m grouchy, because I want something I can’t have. It’s hard for me, I’m a competitive person. I’m competitive with myself, I think I can always do better. Nothing wrong with being competitive, until you get to not being content with where you are.

I’ve talked a lot about wanting nicer homes or cars, but it can be with anything. Maybe it’s your job, you want a more powerful job, a fancier title. How’s your job performance when that job title doesn’t come when you think it should? Do you get mad or are you okay with it? Usually if we get mad, we start becoming not so great of an employee. (Check out Where Are You Seeking Favor)

Not being content in our lives, brings strife. We need to learn to appreciate what we have. Being content, will let us focus on the important things in life. It will bring us less strife in our life.

Doing a gratitude journal or even just thinking of a couple of things each day you’re grateful for changes your mindset for the day. It’s something I’ve done in the past and going to start doing again on a constant basis.

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“Labour not to be rich: cease from thine own wisdom” Proverbs 23:4

So many today have have fallen into the trap of wanting to be wealthy. Money is nice to have, but it’s a tool. Most Americans could not handle a $400 emergency. That’s sad and worrisome, because $400 dollars is not much in today’s money. Having a tooth worked on, something going wrong with your car or house, or a pet getting sick could easily amount to $400 plus. People are living beyond their means. Trying to impress their neighbors and friends and spending their paychecks as soon as they get them.

“But they that will be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and hurtful lusts, which drown men in destruction and perdition.” 1Timothy 6:10

How many times have we seen on the news that some music celeb or a sports star coming out of college and going into the pros gets a lot of money thrown at them and their life crumbles after a few years. Money brings a lot of troubles with it. It separates us from depending on God. It brings the wrong people into our lives. It seems to bring addictions into peoples lives, whether that be drugs, gambling, or something else


Once again, money is not bad, it is a tool. It’s a tool to live our lives on earth. As Proverbs 23:4 says, “Labour not to be rich. . . ” Why? Because if our whole goal is to be rich, what is our end game? How much is enough? Is $1 million enough? Or is it enough until we get close to that number and then we think we need $2 million? Humans are not good at being content, we want more. What we have is not enough. Our neighbor gets a more expensive car, then we have to get a better car. Our buddy moves to a new section of town with a bigger house, we have to move to a nicer neighborhood.

All this leads to is us wanting to be richer, so then we get a better paying job, or keep getting promoted so we keep earning a higher paycheck. But what are the consequences? More hours, more stress, being tired, health issues, etc. What does this do to our family life? What does it do to our quality of life? Most importantly, what does it do to our relationship with God? In many of those cases that all start to deteriorate.

Money and working hard is not bad at all. Some very good people have been blessed to be wealthy. They do amazing things with the money they have been blessed with. It’s how we let money and work impact our life. We should work hard and make a living, but we have to keep God first in our lives. He will provide for our needs, maybe not our wants, but our needs. We should pray that God meets our needs. We should also be wise stewards of what God has given us. If we waste what he has given us, why would he bless us with more? At the end of our lives, are we going to remember all the money we made or will we remember all the time we lost with our loved ones, trying to make that money? Time is our most valuable resource, not money!